My solo trip to Teotitlán del Valle, Oaxaca, México

I hadn’t traveled completely solo in years. I bought this flight to Oaxaca City during Buen Fin, Mexico’s version of Black Friday and used credit card points to book a cheap hotel.

In reality, I nearly forgot about this trip until an email reminder appeared and my gut sank, considering that I was going alone to a place I’d only been once before with a group. I knew that my plan was to go to a village outside of Oaxaca that was known for making textiles, but other than that, I had made no plans. And I didn’t plan to make plans.

I wrote on Reddit for some advice on getting to the village for textiles, and received many helpful responses, including one telling me to try to not miss a Sunday market in another nearby village.

On Sunday morning, I finished packing my bag and called an Uber to the airport. Easy, breezy through security, found my gate, and then headed to the airport lounge for a small breakfast (Thank you Chase Reserve Sapphire card!).

I love the Oaxaca airport. It’s so small that you walk out onto the tarmac and into the tiny airport. It’s so simple and cheap to hop on a collectivo there. There is a stand near the exit, you walk up, tell them where you are going, they check which “section” of the town it is in to determine your price, and ask if it’s okay to go in a shared collectivo (for me, of course). You also have the option to order a private car there.

On the bus ride, I reviewed this Sunday market I was told about and decided that I would try to make it for the end. It was around 1:30 and I could make it there by 3:00 and have time to wander and be back on a bus before dark back to Oaxaca.

I settled into my humble but perfectly cozy hotel room, sorted a few things and grabbed a bag to head out to find my way to the bus. I asked the hotel portero for help on where to go to get the bus.

I was staying in the south end of Centro, so I was told to go to the Terminal de Autobuses Oaxaca Rosa and find a bus/collectivo there.

I hurried over to catch one to Tlacolula de Matamoros for the big market. I did ask someone for help to make sure I ended up on the correct bus/collectivo. I caught a bus, that took about 45 min bus ride with many stops. This was around 20-25 pesos. I made it there around 2:30-3:00, enough time to walk through and enjoy the market. It was a lot of food and clothes. I didn’t buy anything, but did stop for barbacoa tacos de Tlacolula. Very delicious! On the way back, there is a bus terminal from Tlacolula to Oaxaca. They came every 15 minutes or so, and cost around 20 pesos.

On Tuesday, I went to Terminal de Autobuses Oaxaca Rosa to go to Teotitlán del Valle. Unfortunately I had a bit of a late start to the day. I asked a man for help to know which bus/collectivo was the right one, and he was going to Teotitlán del Valle too, so we waited and got on the collective together. This was 20 pesos. The collectivo can drop you off in the centro area of Teotitlán del Valle (versus the bus, stopping only on the highway with a 2 mile road to centro – taxis and tuktuks available to help). The man told me where to exit, one block from centro, and suggested a restaurant for me.

The town was very empty (it was a Tuesday after all). I went to the restaurant El Descanso and had a lovely black mole chicken dish. It was very nice, sweet and a bit spicy mole. They also let me charge my phone. The restaurant also has a store on the first and second floor, so I wandered a bit. I talked to the man who owns the store, also one of the weavers from a generational line. They had many large rugs on the second floor.

From there, I headed down the street toward Centro. Stopping at each tienda along the way on the right side of the street. In each tienda, I was greeted with a huge smile and an incredible amount of help, as they sorted through colors of purses/blankets/rugs for me to look at. The store owners were very kind and wanted to ask me many questions (luckily my Spanish is strong), so I chatted with each of them for an extended time.

One of the stores I visited, the man had a loom along with all of the natural elements that they use to dye the fabrics. He told me all about how they only use natural elements and had me hold out my hand to give me an example. He added some red powder (from a mineral, I believe), then a bit of water to dilute it down. Added some lemon, and the acid changed the color. Then he added some blue pigment (maybe from a flower?), and it turned into a gorgeous purple. The science of the color wheel on my hand 🙂

In the final store, I talked with a lovely couple for over an hour. We shared stories, and talked politics of the USA and how it will affect Mexico (in a tactful manner). We exchanged information to get together next time I visit. 🙂

In total, in approximately 3 hours, I made it a half a block and into just 5 tiendas (jaja!!). I enjoyed talking with the tienda owners as much as I enjoyed looking at the textiles. I ended up buying a bag, a purse, a pillow cover, 2 headbands and a blanket.

I will be returning soon to visit the remaining areas outside of the half block I now know. Hehe 🙂

To return to Oaxaca, I took a taxi back to the highway. The taxis in Teotitlán are shared, so we stopped and picked up two more people along the way. Be aware of this – I wasn’t expecting it, but also had no issue. The taxi was 10 pesos to return from Centro to the highway. Once at the highway, a man pointed me to the correct collectivo to catch back to Oaxaca.

I got off at a street a few blocks from my hotel while we stopped at a red light. I hopped out quickly as not to disturb the ride- checked my bags and realized I’d left my new bag + blanket I’d just bought in the bus. So I ran back and grabbed it. Thankfully I noticed immediately, so that would have been a sad ending to such a nice trip.

Thank you all for the advice (I hadn’t traveled solo in many years so I was a bit nervous). Of course, everything always works out – exactly as its supposed to, even when it’s only a half a block and really lovely conversations.

Gear Up for Travel Season: Essential Products to Keep You Comfortable in Any Weather

As temperatures start to dip and the air gets crisper, it’s a reminder that travel season is upon us. Fall and winter are prime times to explore new destinations or cozy up in old favorites. But with changing weather and unpredictable travel conditions, having the right travel gear is key to a smooth, comfortable experience. Here are some essentials that can make your travel days easier, whether you’re flying to a tropical paradise, embarking on a European adventure, or heading for snowy mountain peaks.

1. Travel Neck Pillow

One of the most underrated travel essentials, a good neck pillow can transform a flight from uncomfortable to almost cozy. Look for memory foam options that mold to your neck, providing support and reducing neck strain on long flights. Some even come with a clip to attach to your luggage, making it easy to access when needed.

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2. Airplane Phone Holder

If you’re one to catch up on movies or TV shows mid-flight, an airplane phone holder is a game changer. These handy gadgets attach to the seat in front of you, freeing up your hands and neck while you relax and watch. With a flexible design, they adjust to most seat types, allowing you to find the perfect viewing angle for maximum comfort.

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3. Neck Fan with Cool Air

For those tropical getaways or humid destinations, a rechargeable neck fan is a lifesaver. Unlike bulky, handheld fans, these wearable versions are lightweight and hands-free, offering steady cooling relief on warm days. This is especially useful for outdoor sightseeing or long strolls around town. Choose a model with multiple fan speeds for added control over your cool air comfort.

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4. TUMI Alpha Carry-On

Traveling light and organized is an art, and the TUMI Alpha Carry-On makes it simple. Known for its durability, spacious compartments, and sleek design, this carry-on is perfect for both business and leisure travel. Made from ballistic nylon, it can withstand plenty of wear and tear, and it’s small enough to fit in overhead bins on most flights. Plus, with its smart zipper pockets and expandable design, you’ll have space for all your essentials.

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5. Icebreaker Merino Wool Products

Cold-weather travelers, rejoice! Icebreaker’s merino wool clothing is designed for warmth, breathability, and comfort. Merino wool is naturally odor-resistant and temperature-regulating, making it perfect for both active adventures and chilly days exploring a city. Consider layering with a merino wool base layer or a cozy, lightweight sweater to stay toasty without bulk.

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6. Anker Power Bank

Traveling without enough battery on your devices is a thing of the past with the Anker power bank. Known for its reliability and high-capacity charging power, this is a must-have for keeping your devices fully charged. Its compact size and powerful charge mean you can use your phone, tablet, or camera all day without searching for an outlet, perfect for long travel days.

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7. Anti-Theft Bag from Travelon

If you’re heading to popular tourist spots, especially in Europe, having an anti-theft bag adds extra peace of mind. Travelon’s anti-theft bags come with lockable zippers, RFID-blocking pockets, and cut-resistant straps, making it difficult for pickpockets to ruin your trip. Compact, stylish, and durable, these bags are perfect for carrying your essentials safely, leaving you to explore without worry.

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Whether you’re braving the cold, escaping to somewhere tropical, or tackling a busy city, these travel essentials make the journey easier, more comfortable, and safer. Now all that’s left is to pick your destination and start packing! Where will this season take you?

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My Best Tips for Traveling by Airplane with your Cat

I’ve now been living in Mexico City for almost a full year. For the past two years, I flew back and forth with my cat Marley a couple times per year as I was exploring the idea of moving permanently.

With these many flights, I discovered solutions to a few pain points that I want to share with you to make your trip with your cat easier. Whether traveling international or domestic, these tips should make your time in the airport and in the air less stressful for both you and your cat.

You can read my first post “Cat Travel- Mexico to Michigan, USA” where I looked into the best airline to travel from Michigan and the regulations of pet travel between Michigan and Mexico.

In summary from my past article: I love flying Delta with Marley. It’s easy to use the chat feature on Delta’s website to verify the flight has available space for a pet onboard, then they can easily add the pet to the flight(s). To reserve a spot on the flight, they will need your pet’s breed, age, weight of the pet + carrier, if the carrier is hard or soft, the dimensions of the carrier. You do not need to pay anything with Delta when reserving the spot on the flight, but you do have to already have paid for your flight. You will not be able to do online check-in. At the desk, they will check your pet’s paperwork and you will pay your pet fee. Pet Fees with Delta. Another piece of advice: your pet carrier will be your carry-on and must be placed under your seat. I take a backpack with my purse in it, laptop, medications, and any other important things I want on board with me.

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Marley’s Favorite Carrier

The carrier that I love to use for Marley’s airline travel, car travel and veterinary trips is the Sherpa Delta Airlines Travel Pet Carrier, Airline Approved & Guaranteed On Board. It is 18.0″L x 11.0″W x 10.5″H and fits pets up to 16 lbs. It has a fuzzy liner at the bottom to keep your pet warm and cozy. The liner is removable to wash if needed. Both hand and shoulder strap are included. The shoulder strap was hugely important to me, as it’s long enough to use it as a cross-body and makes it much easier to navigate having your hands free. There are mesh windows and roll-up “curtains” so you can modify for your pet’s best needs – if they like to look out or if it stresses them out.

The carrier has a medium-sized pocket which I initially kept folded up paperwork – I now keep this in a folder in my backpack. I now include Marley’s harness and leash, her portable/collapsable litter box and foldable water/food dish.

How to take your cat to the bathroom?

I’m very fortunate that Marley is a really chill cat. She is older so it’s important that she does get to use the bathroom often. I usually take early flights, so I pick up her water bowl the night before our flight. I don’t take her out of her carrier while on the plane, so we make sure to get to a safe place for her to use her litter box before and after the flight.

Currently, I use my Priority Pass, one of the perks of my Chase Sapphire Reserve card, to spend some relaxing time at a lounge with Marley before our flight. The Minute Suites at DTW airport are “purrfect” for us. They are private rooms with a couch and TV to hang for an hour. I set up Marley’s portable/collapsable litter box and foldable water/food dish and let her roam and stretch out before our flight.

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Here’s a pain point that I learned after my first two flights. Figuring out how to clean the portable litter box was a hassle, trying to rinse it out awkwardly in a public bathroom, wiping it dry with toilet paper. Yuck. I started traveling with 2-3 litter box liners. These are the ones I buy from Amazon: Jonny Cat Litter Box Liners: Heavy Duty – Tear & Leak Resistant with Drawstring Close. Using these litter box liners has changed my life!

Jonny Cat litter box liners

If the suites are not available, I try to find a family bathroom. I set up her litter box with liner, and if it’s a private space, I let her out to roam and go potty. If a private restroom isn’t available, I will try for a back corner bathroom stall and use her harness and leash.

Do you medicate your cat for your flight?

It is not recommended to medicate your pet prior to flights. Marley meows a bit when we get into the car, but she’s quiet as a mouse once we’re arrived to the airport and during the entire flight. I reach my hand into her carrier a few times to check on her and she just sleeps.

I recommend acclimating your cat to its carrier before any trips. Allow your pet to get used to the carrier in the house, throw treats into it. Then move on to placing your cat in the carrier, zipping it and walking around. Then proceed to a short car trip. This will give you an idea of how your cat will react.

When you visit with your veterinarian for a general check-up, health certificate and/or vaccinations, you can chat with your veterinarian if you find that your cat suffers from panic/anxiety being in the carrier and what your options are.

What happens during security?

I think it’s important to understand how security check will go with your pet. Prep all of your personal belongings as normal. You are permitted to bring one day’s worth of food and litter with you on the flight (check your airline for details). Remove the bag of cat food and litter and place them in a separate bin. It is highly likely that they will pull you aside after you go through the metal detector to test the litter. Due to this extra time and to not cause yourself anxiety, be sure to show up to the airport early for this – although it doesn’t take very long and it’s a simple process.

Let the agent know that you have a cat. You will need to remove your cat from the carrier and place the carrier on the belt. At this time, you may want to already have the harness and leash on your cat (you can do this in the bathroom before security) or just attach the leash to your cat’s collar for safety. The airport can be heavy-stimulation for your cat, so it’s important to know how to hold your cat where they will feel safe while you walk through the metal detector together.

How to properly hold a cat

After the metal detector, place your cat back in the carrier and carefully remove the harness/leash. This is where security will likely pull you aside to test the litter.

After your flight

After your flight, I suggest finding the nearest restroom. Set up the litterbox with a liner and let your cat have a potty break. If you’re in Mexico, you will go through customs and then stop at the SENISECA desk to receive documentation permitting your cat into the country. They will have you fill out some paperwork and have a quick visual inspection of your cat to ensure they are healthy.

Buen Viaje

I hope this article helps make you and your pet’s experience traveling smooth and anxiety-free. Please comment if you have any questions!

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